The
zenhabits blog has a post up this morning that includes some good, simple advice on staying happy. In
Five Great Ways to Achieve Happiness Through Serving Others, guest blogger Stephen Smith of
HD BizBlog 1.2 writes about lessons he learned working in the service industries. He writes that he found something truly rewarding in serving others:
I remember going home after many 12- to 16-hour days, having served hundreds of people their meals and watched them dance and celebrate a special day with family and friends. At these times I felt tired, of course, but also invigorated and gratified by the display of human connection.
From his experiences he offers five ideas to consider as a way to increase our level of service to others and thereby increase our own happiness:
- Show respect and courtesy.
- Listen more than you speak.
- Give genuine praise.
- Keep your promises.
- Practice forgiveness.
These seem very simple, and they are, but they are often lost in the rush of our busy days. It might be worth taking a moment to consider trying each of these as we make our way to and from work, deal with issues at the office, and struggle with the challenges of being good spouses, partners and parents.
